Ratnakara : A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets. A scrapbook of memorable experiences and journeys of my life....
Thursday, May 16, 2013
SKITTLES
Do little..........to brighten up your day. Love my skittles :) Been a long day after taking mom to TAR Rd and then headed straight to the Midvalley Megamall! I need a real good pampering now.
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Progress.......
The work is in progress and it's been quite of stressful months monitoring the work and just can wait to complete the task.
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Monday, April 22, 2013
The change of Immigration system in the US
After years of talks on the H4 controversies , I guess it's time we witness the changes for good. It's ridiculous and absurd where a set of bills passed as law restrict one's freedom and life. If the L2 visa holders are allowed to work then why not the H4.
Yes, we are aware of the major frauds done by citizens of Asian country on faking up their resumes and work experiences but hey, isn't it the duty of the employer to have right background checks ? Stopping the professionals will only make the country to suffer brain drain and lack of expertise.
I came to know that in New Jersey, some desi's pay up money for someone else to take the job interviews. I am seriously laughing now. This is just sounding absolutely stupid. In place of restricting the entire law on freedom of an entity , it's good to have a checks and balance on the system and the person given visa to work.
What about the dirty jobs done by the Tri Valley University ? TVU employee openly admitted to illegally bypassing the H1 regulations by fraudulently using the F1.The TVU employee also admitted of colluding with employers to depress the wages of employees.
By stopping H4 visa holders to work , the frauds done by desperate people will not stop. In place of increasing the immigration crimes and frauds, it's good if rights are given to real genuine and capable ladies who could contribute economically to the family and country. Hey, we are paying the taxes as well !
Finally I see some light coming in by the change. Hope this just don't sit in as a mere talk but by the real change done !
Yes, we are aware of the major frauds done by citizens of Asian country on faking up their resumes and work experiences but hey, isn't it the duty of the employer to have right background checks ? Stopping the professionals will only make the country to suffer brain drain and lack of expertise.
I came to know that in New Jersey, some desi's pay up money for someone else to take the job interviews. I am seriously laughing now. This is just sounding absolutely stupid. In place of restricting the entire law on freedom of an entity , it's good to have a checks and balance on the system and the person given visa to work.
What about the dirty jobs done by the Tri Valley University ? TVU employee openly admitted to illegally bypassing the H1 regulations by fraudulently using the F1.The TVU employee also admitted of colluding with employers to depress the wages of employees.
By stopping H4 visa holders to work , the frauds done by desperate people will not stop. In place of increasing the immigration crimes and frauds, it's good if rights are given to real genuine and capable ladies who could contribute economically to the family and country. Hey, we are paying the taxes as well !
Finally I see some light coming in by the change. Hope this just don't sit in as a mere talk but by the real change done !
Bhoomi pooja
Monday, April 15, 2013
Remembering my Graduation :)
The day I've been longing for...........years passed but those memories do remind you of the hardship you've faced in reaching your goal. This day will be remembered forever, I personally take up the space to thank ( words aren't enough ) my mom and of course Bee. My BFF.
Friday, April 5, 2013
THONEH again !
It's been a long wait to complete my task , finally the day is here. Mom's left eye surgery at Thoneh. I'm just happy that I'm nearing to complete my task and work after long years in the US. Thank god for a wonderful doctor , great weather and of course support of Bee.
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| The first floor operation room. |
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| Waiting room for the guests. |
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Give up to be Happy.
We grew up hearing not to give up but life is not the same being an adult. Well , I've always wanted to grow up fast when I was a kid , what the hell I was thinking !! Life in England taught so many valuable lessons and meeting people from different walks of life , life in Malaysia taught me how can I improve myself in every aspects possibly , life in India...........you can just describe in one word - Incredible India! It's all about survival of the fittest and life in the USA taught me even more than all of the above said chapters.......... it's all about giving up.
Life is seen as paradise to many people who dream on living a life in America. It's just not a dream, it's beyond that. Life is not easy as what many people think. Many couples fail to make life after marriage not because they are in the US but it's because of the life which demands a lot of hard work and sacrifice. When people imagine earning in dollars is all about $$$$$ , the fact is every employee pays $$$$ taxes to the IRS. You are responsible to keep your home clean , otherwise be ready to face charges by the Home Owner Association :)
Sometimes, giving up can make us happy in many ways. We can never be ALWAYS be right , so give up on trying to be right because being kind is nicer than being right :) Great relationships suffer due to trying to be right.
“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu
Sometimes it's good to let go of control. First of all, there should not be control concepts in relationships , be it spouse , kids or co workers. I have seen wives/mothers who keep on nagging their husband/kids. Finally the relationship gets strained due to this. One has to understand how their behavior will impact another.
Blame - stop blaming and take full responsibility of our life. I see absolutely no point in blaming others. I cant stand it to hear mothers who curse their kids for silly reasons. Remember, being a parent don't give you the automatic right to drive over your child's life. If you cannot appreciate then do not strain the child - parent relationship by verbal abuse. Be careful with your words because once they are said, they can be forgiven but not forgotten ! Ultimately you lose peace of mind by not giving up blaming others for mistakes they don't do.
“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle
Give up on limiting your goals. Once you think positively that you could do something, never look back and immediately your mind will absorb the positive energy and start working to achieve your goal. It's all in the mind set. Don't limit on what you can or cannot do.
"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are only to miss the future." John F. Kennedy
Give up on past. Dwelling on past can never bring us future. I myself have been there and sometimes it hurts to think that I have actually spoilt my present due to thinking of past. Everyone have their own regrets in life but living on the regrets are just so unhealthy. Not only we suffer stress and disturbed mind but we are spreading the negative aura around us!
Give up on trying to impress. Sometimes we just want people to recognize us and trying to impress will not really be rewarding. Take off that mask , be real and people will embrace us for what we are. After all , we don't lose being ourselves.
Finally , I've learnt giving up does make sense as an adult on certain notions in my life. I thank god sometimes I just come across wonderful souls in my life.. I am still learning !!
Life is seen as paradise to many people who dream on living a life in America. It's just not a dream, it's beyond that. Life is not easy as what many people think. Many couples fail to make life after marriage not because they are in the US but it's because of the life which demands a lot of hard work and sacrifice. When people imagine earning in dollars is all about $$$$$ , the fact is every employee pays $$$$ taxes to the IRS. You are responsible to keep your home clean , otherwise be ready to face charges by the Home Owner Association :)
Sometimes, giving up can make us happy in many ways. We can never be ALWAYS be right , so give up on trying to be right because being kind is nicer than being right :) Great relationships suffer due to trying to be right.
“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu
Sometimes it's good to let go of control. First of all, there should not be control concepts in relationships , be it spouse , kids or co workers. I have seen wives/mothers who keep on nagging their husband/kids. Finally the relationship gets strained due to this. One has to understand how their behavior will impact another.
Blame - stop blaming and take full responsibility of our life. I see absolutely no point in blaming others. I cant stand it to hear mothers who curse their kids for silly reasons. Remember, being a parent don't give you the automatic right to drive over your child's life. If you cannot appreciate then do not strain the child - parent relationship by verbal abuse. Be careful with your words because once they are said, they can be forgiven but not forgotten ! Ultimately you lose peace of mind by not giving up blaming others for mistakes they don't do.
“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle
Give up on limiting your goals. Once you think positively that you could do something, never look back and immediately your mind will absorb the positive energy and start working to achieve your goal. It's all in the mind set. Don't limit on what you can or cannot do.
"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are only to miss the future." John F. Kennedy
Give up on past. Dwelling on past can never bring us future. I myself have been there and sometimes it hurts to think that I have actually spoilt my present due to thinking of past. Everyone have their own regrets in life but living on the regrets are just so unhealthy. Not only we suffer stress and disturbed mind but we are spreading the negative aura around us!
Give up on trying to impress. Sometimes we just want people to recognize us and trying to impress will not really be rewarding. Take off that mask , be real and people will embrace us for what we are. After all , we don't lose being ourselves.
Finally , I've learnt giving up does make sense as an adult on certain notions in my life. I thank god sometimes I just come across wonderful souls in my life.. I am still learning !!
Friday, March 1, 2013
MARCH 2013
It's March ?! You kidding me.........! Ugggh....my packing is still pending............! Lotsa work and so little time :(
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