Just had to share this !
Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy
scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and
rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative - self-value. If you
cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always
think it's a mistake or luck. Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner
within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences.
Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you
will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to
them. ~Jennifer James