Peaceful Warrior

Have you ever been downed by another person ? I believe that each of  us would have come across at least one person who hates us or dislike our personality. Often, I've been surrounded by many girl friends, only to find out later that're actually with me to get favours and then bad mouth or pass rumours to satisfy themselves. Human nature, most of  them tend to forget their standing of the past before seeking help.

I'm not a celebrity but I've always been the centre of attention wherever I went as a teenager. Therefore I have never felt the need of getting attentions, on contrast I'd always felt that it's just good if no one noticed me! Privacy means so much when I want to have good time with my loved ones and I dont need to answer silly personal questions from an acquintance whom I dont really know.

The problem with us Asians are being too nosy and interfering into someone else's personal room. The most common questions :-

1. What are you studying ? Completed your degree ? If it's in India , it's going to be 'dont you have Masters ?'

2. Are you married ?

3. Do you have kids ?

I see people are competing each other losing their identity. A person who's educated abroad may choose not to do Masters because they hold a recognizable degree. Indian degrees are not recognized as of a British or American standard, therefore there is a need to do Masters in India.

Marriage is a personal choice. Some may want to find their footing in establishing career.More than that, marriage is about perfect timing, matches are made in heaven and performed on earth. Thus, it's a matter of the right timing that one may choose to get married.

Now, coming to the most sensitive question of  starting a family..... this is absolutely the rights of  the couple depending on their personal choice of readiness to welcome the bundle of  joy.

With the current economy turmoil, the living standard have lost it's balance.Thousands of  employees were retrentched. People are leaving out their purchased homes and let it go on foreclosure. Families are not able to feed their kids. Despite all this, we should be able to drive our life with extra care that no one falls sick to be facing the bulky hit on pocket dollars with the medical insurance fee.

The world would be a better place to live if we're able to understand hearts and draw a line of behaving well with others. Best friends have all the reason to speak out for the good of their long steady friendships but the rest should learn to balance their interest in keeping up the growing friendship!

After all, I know this is a psychological factor of feeling good and comparing one self with another.



“The people who are the hardest to love are the ones who need it the most.” ~Peaceful Warrior