Daughters in Law - the curse !

Well , the title in itself  speaks that being a daughter in law is the toughest role as constantly the daughter in law will be compared to own daughter.

The rule is simple , if  you treat your in laws as your own parents, then it is all easy after. However this rule does not work with everyone , sadly ! I have come across real nice daughters in law who have monsters as their mother in law and vice versa.

I just cant stand ladies who keep on complaining about their mother and father in law. Give it a break darling , they are not going to live or stick with you for the next 50 years of their life. I do understand that being a daughter in law in India is a challenge because the war between the in laws existed centuries ago. This will never end because in laws do see the difference between their own daughter and daughter in law.

I feel so sorry for girls who suffer in silence , who don't even speak against their in laws but they are being punished for things they don't deserve. Well , sometimes you can take it as no point talking to people who cant think good or appreciate you. It's good to move on with your lives.

Why the in laws relationship gets all same and strained in Indian families ? Lack of  respect - mother in law don't respect the rights of a daughter in law and daughter in law sees mother in law as an unwanted person.

These drama episodes never end unless we give importance for what we want in our lives. It's good to be balanced and least expect to get treated well by in laws. Poor guys, it's the husbands suffer most when they are answerable to their parents and wife. The family and world would be a better place if we stop envying or dominating each other.

Tirukarthikai deepam 2012

Deepas in my balcony....

It was a total, last minute unplanned visit  to Ganesha  temple......... I never knew the surprise awaiting for us :) Astro vanavil recording on Tirukarthikai Deepam. Mom was asked to explain the reason behind tirukarthikai and yes, we will be featured in the tv. I'm so proud of  my mom. All I ask God is to bless her with great health , happiness and peace. I felt happy to be in KL this year, for a change after all that routine US style. Can't wait to visit Tiruvannamalai again!! Bala Murugan looked beautiful. I will certainly miss my Malaysian life terribly when I return back to US!

The bleughs..........

This year's been full of  dynamics , challenging and yes for all those who said world is going to end in 2012.......we're almost bidding good bye to November. Today went on fine except that we ran to catch the Skybus to LCCT. It's only few hours and I'm already missing you :(

Deepavali / Diwali 2012

It's gonna be our thala deepavali teeheee.... but not by years ! Brickfields is a wrong planning by a group of  wrong people ! From where did such crowd turned up ? Okay , as usual we had our very last minute shopping , glad that we bought good stuffs and watching the fireworks was a lot fun ! Murukku muchings and pleasant evening spent visiting Ramalingeswara temple. Deepavali this year was the best compared to last 4 years back in US. Ended up playing firecrackers with the neighbour kids :)