Daughters in Law - the curse !

Well , the title in itself  speaks that being a daughter in law is the toughest role as constantly the daughter in law will be compared to own daughter.

The rule is simple , if  you treat your in laws as your own parents, then it is all easy after. However this rule does not work with everyone , sadly ! I have come across real nice daughters in law who have monsters as their mother in law and vice versa.

I just cant stand ladies who keep on complaining about their mother and father in law. Give it a break darling , they are not going to live or stick with you for the next 50 years of their life. I do understand that being a daughter in law in India is a challenge because the war between the in laws existed centuries ago. This will never end because in laws do see the difference between their own daughter and daughter in law.

I feel so sorry for girls who suffer in silence , who don't even speak against their in laws but they are being punished for things they don't deserve. Well , sometimes you can take it as no point talking to people who cant think good or appreciate you. It's good to move on with your lives.

Why the in laws relationship gets all same and strained in Indian families ? Lack of  respect - mother in law don't respect the rights of a daughter in law and daughter in law sees mother in law as an unwanted person.

These drama episodes never end unless we give importance for what we want in our lives. It's good to be balanced and least expect to get treated well by in laws. Poor guys, it's the husbands suffer most when they are answerable to their parents and wife. The family and world would be a better place if we stop envying or dominating each other.